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Thursday, January 3, 2008

TO LOVE AND HATE....

To love and hate...we all do have rights..but what is the demarcating line?!..i remember some great people's stories..first we have to understand what is real love..yes to love doesnt mean unscripulously , blindly supporting whatever our beloved person does..so also to hate means not blindly critiscizing or offending the nature of aperson or his deeds..we should be in a position to discriminate , between what is right and wrong, may be in a larger sense there is nothing called as right or wrong, thats different anyway, let us try to cultivate the habit of loving that too without discrimination , without expecting anything in return, because love is giving , its a pleasure for both , but sometimes we may feel that our counterpart doesn love us equally like us, definitly we can do nothing about that, our duty is to shed lo0ve we shall do it, coming to the point of to hate..ya we must indeed hate something, but the difference lies in discriminating the doer and his action, we can and ofcourse hate harmful actions or deeds of a person but not the person as a whole, that is we can hate deeds but should not hate the doer, this will actually build our relationship, oue happiness wont get pertubed, for eg if a person spits at u , u have the right to get angry but for the act of spitting alone, just we need not carry the angry and hatch into hatred..because what we need in todays world is love.....

1 comment:

Miel said...

Yeah if a person doesnt love us the way we want to, it doesnt mean he doesnt love with all he has........ love should be accepted in any shape it comes and for hatred..... its always good to forget and forgive........